1. Seek out local Christian places of worship that include parishioners who are openly gay and lesbian. There are quite a few congregations that are not welcoming to gay members. However, there are many churches that do invite participation. If you want to meet other gay Christians, you should seek out welcoming churches.

2. Become a participating member of gay religious organizations. If you are seeking a place to feel welcome, you could join some gay religious organizations. Then you will meet other gay Christians.

3. There are gay Christians Internet forums you could join. On these forums, Christians may feel free to discuss any issue involving Christianity. Homosexuality is just one issue that is often discussed.

4. Post a personal ad in the classifieds or at a website like Craigslist. If you want to meet people who match a specific description, a personal ad can be a good way to pursue your search anonymously. Use the phone or e mail to screen prospective people. Check with your local newspaper to see if they provide a service that allows people who are interested in you or your point of view to contact you while you remain anonymous.

5. Inquire of family members and acquaintances whether they know any single gay Christians. Perhaps they could give you a phone number or e mail address, or even fix you up with a date with someone who shares your beliefs.