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3 Tips to improve your online dating profile
12-01-09 03:30

First impressions count both offline and online.  Your personal listing on Rainbow Christians or any gay dating site is your shingle on the web.  It's very likely that the contents of your listing will be used by prospective parters and frien

Below are some tips on how to enhance your personal listing that will help you stand out and increase your response rate.  With the right tuning, you can inject new life into your profile and put your best foot forward.

 

1. Pictures are worth a thousand words


Photos give your personal listing a human touch and can go a long way in terms of maximizing views and response rates.  A picture attached to your profile is more likely to grab someone's attention, elicit an emotional response and trigger curiosity.  You can have the most well-written and compelling dating profile on the web, but without a photo, it simply won't attract enough eyeballs and will likely go unread.  Upload a picture that portrays you as lively and clean cut.  Ask a friend or use your best judgement to determine what colors look best on you.  Better yet, use a photo that expresses your unique personality or favorite interests.  Have a favorite picture of you and your dog?  Upload it.  It'll prove to be a nice ice breaker and talking point when someone reaches out to you. 


2. Attention grabbing headlines


Come up with a headline that draws people to view your profile.  Try to keep it short, no more than eight words, and avoid cliches to differentiate yourself from others.  Incorporate a hobby or interest into your headline to make it unique.  Use your favorite band, college, cafe, sports team, song, or even a line from your favorite movie.  Don't be afraid to change it up every now and then.  Experiment with various headlines and keep tabs on what works best in terms of generating responses.  Needless to say, your headline should be grammatically correct and without spelling errors.  Also, remember to turn off that caps lock button, since "yelling" is considered to be inappropriate, if not obnoxious.  Also, where it makes sense, punctuate your headline with an ellipses (...) as a way of signaling to others that there's more to your story and that he or she will need to click through on your profile in order to get a complete picture of you.    

   
3. Avoid negativity in your profile


Ever go out on a first date with a negative person?  If you haven't consider yourself lucky.  Similar to time spent together with a date, your profile should be positive, void of negativity or excessive complaining.  People tend to associate negativity with the person being negative.  In general, people don't enjoy the company of a negative person.  If your profile contains negative topics (e.g. complaining about your ex, experiences with gold diggers), you may be shooting yourself in the foot and scaring off potential partners.  No matter how bad the situation with your ex-parter was or how badly you want to get something off your chest, try not to use your profile as a sounding board to vent or whine.  Your profile should present you in a positive light, as someone who is fun and pleasant to be with.  How you present yourself in your profile will play a huge factor in determining your success on this and any other dating site.   



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