Hey everyone.  You may find this hard to believe but I am totally on the fence about the bible and homosexuality even though Im a minister.  Ive been researching for a year and still have no assurance.  Im a virgin period and plan on staying that way but this is still so scary for me.  Your thoughts?

 Hello, I understand your being scared about this subject. I can not go against Christians as to say to them they are wrong about their beliefs. But if you show them that people who were straight, in the old testamnet, having more than one sex partner were stoned to death for doing so, you can ask them, can you cast the first stone. I have been told by many big name pastors I was one the most powerful men of God they have met. I tell you that if they had known I was gay they would have not been able to see past their own self beliefs. Once you have shown yourself approved"read the word daily" and the Holy Spirit fills your (church) body, you are able to see people for who they are spiritually without reserve to a label. I hope this helps you on your journey. Also God Bless you on staying virgin, we need much of that.

I'm curious as to what exactly you are questioning? Here is a good link for you to look over...if you are interested. Maybe this will help?

http://www.ambs.edu/LJohns/Homosexuality.htm

I can relate to the confusion as well.

There are a number of websites, books, organizations, etcetera that can help.

Here are two places that I have found especially helpful:

htt://www.bridges-across.org/ba/mission.htm

(read the description of their mission, the click "faith" in the upper right hand corner)

htt://www.gaychristian.net/community/help.php?

I know how you feel. I've dealt with the same doubts that you have. Whatever decision you come to will have to be your own, done with research, prayer, and meditation.

I have been a virgin for 31 years sir, and my sexuality hasn't changed and I dont think it will. I dont undersetand the Bible, I mean, I get it, but at times I dont. I mean, I dont see what the big deal about two men loving each other is, i really dont. sigh. Anyhow. Someone pray for me, bm looking for wm of his dreams ltr.