I am really glad to see a group for our age I also been struggling with the being left out because of my age, I have been thinking alot about dating women because of the way I found some of the dating  in the gay community  are going. I find myself more attricive now then when I was younger, and have much more to offer than ever, but because I don't fit in with chasing after outter beauty and instead going for the total package I feel left out. I want a normal wholesome relationship that  fit in all scenes. I don't want to scream, just softly whisper.